Ter the Skin (A Poem and Commentary about Finding Love Online)

John has bot writing poetry since his schoolgebouw days. He wasgoed awarded &quot,Poet of the Year 2014&quot, Hubby Awards and has had two poems become songs.

Love ter the Supuesto World

Since the introduction of the Internet the world has seen a major shift ter the way people communicate, and even find love. More and more friendships and relationships are developing online rather than “ter the skin.”

Some of thesis people eventually meet and transfer their cyber relationship into existente life romances, but the vast majority never meet and are destined to only find and share love ter the “potencial world.”

This poem attempts to describe one such relationship.

Instant Messaging and Talk Rooms

Instant Messaging (IM) and Talk Rooms operate via the Internet. This permits for instant communication inbetween two computers anywhere te the world and because of this IM and Talk Rooms have flourished.

Instant Messaging is a service that permits users to send typed messages, pictures, files, and live movie with sound to a recipient using their screen name. It provides a individual way of communicating with friends and other known acquaintances and is very popular among teenagers and adults alike.

Ter order to use thesis services users vereiste download a free program and install it on their pc. There are several available with two of the more popular ones being Yahoo Messenger and AIM (America Online IM). The program treats all the communication and provides a window for the user to type and receive messages.

Ter the Skin

Your written name

Cracks through my crust,

Those feelings rise,

Of love and passion.

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

I drape on every word

Whatever time of day

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

You make mij laugh,

You make mij sob.

More often however

You make mij breathe.

How do you hold

Such hidden power,

That makes strong studs

Wilt like a flower?

You say such words

That don’t seem positivo.

Just how I feel.

I hanker my cyber time

Or heard your voice,

Or know your wedren.

The love wij share

Is youthful and fresh,

I need to meet you

A talk slagroom is similar to Instant Messaging but instead of one-to-one communication, users loom on to a themed based posible slagroom and communicate with several people only known by their screen names. By sending typed messages to the slagroom all connected users can read and react like a big online community. The range of topics to choose from is endless: relationships, hobbies, sports, politics, health issues, and religion etc. Basically if there is an rente, there is very likely a talk slagroom available. It is often of a place for users to postbode their name, engage ter some chit talk, and then wait for someone to request an Instant Message which is also known spil “going private.”

A poem about the pros and cons of Internet dating based on the fairy tale Snow White.

Have you everzwijn attempted Online Dating?


If you find yourself becoming attracted to or involved with someone through instant messenger or a talk slagroom and the relationship shows up to be getting serious, it is very likely a good idea to request to communicate with them through Skype, FaceTime or other form of movie talk.

This way you will have the chance to actually see the other (most likely faceless) person you have bot talking with. Often people are not exactly fair when talking online. They may lie about their age, vertoning you a photo of themselves that is ten years old, or of someone they would like to look like but isn’t ter fact them. They could even be the opposite hookup of what they pretend to be.

You still won’t be able to confirm details such spil if they are actually married or single etc. but you will at least have their appearance and voice to go on.

Warning signs

  • You meet someone online and after just a few contacts they profess strong feelings for you, and ask to talk with you privately. If you met on a dating webpagina they will attempt and budge you away from the webpagina and communicate via talk or email.
  • Their profile on the internet dating webstek or their Facebook pagina is not consistent with what they tell you. For example, their profile picture looks different to their description of themselves, or they say they are university educated but their English is poor.
  • After gaining your trust – often waiting weeks, months or even years – they tell you an elaborate story and ask for money, gifts or your bankgebouw account/credit card details.
  • Their messages are often poorly written, vague and may even address you by the wrong name.
  • If you don’t send money straight away, their messages and calls become more desperate, persistent or rechtstreeks. If you do send money, they proceed to ask you to send more.
  • They don’t keep their promises and always have an excuse for why they can’t travel to meet you and why they always need more money. (source: Scamwatch)

Don’t Believe Everything You Read

“Is the above poem written from practice?” you may ask. Well not that I am admitting 🙂 albeit, I have bot approached online by a number of very friendly and exotic women who look like supermodels but are despairingly lonely and can only find a zuigeling caring man on the Internet.

They used to always be from Ghana or Nigeria, but more recently seem to be British or American (funny that their English writing abilities are never very fluent..damn the schoolgebouw system today) who unexpectedly have to travel to the African continent to lodge the affairs of a sick or dying father or relative. This usually recently deceased person remarkably always has millions of dollars tied up te their estate that their only daughter cannot access without it being claimed and transferred to a third party’s canap account.

This is where they usually request my zuigeling assistance, and for my help they will generously pay mij around a tenth of the fortune. I only need to pay the solicitor’s costs and that of transferring the money etc. usually a mere $400 or so. To arrange this all I have to do is email the Voorzitter of some canap ter Westelijk Africa etc whose email address they supply.

Thesis women are very friendly and ask all kleintje of questions about where I live, what interests mij, sport I go after etc. and I am so suave and agradable that they fall te love with mij within the very first five minutes of messaging, promising mij anything and wanting to meet mij so wij can spend our lives and the million dollars together (maybe it’s my Aussie accent,,nah that can’t be it, they toevluchthaven’t heard it).

They seem to miraculously be experts te whatever sport or rente I say I like. For example I told one that I loved football, so she came back telling mij that Manchester United wasgoed hier favourite team ter the FA Cup and all thesis facts that held no rente for mij. I told hier I liked Rugby League or Rugby Union Football, not Soccer. and she wasgoed stunned into improvised muffle.

Have you bot scammed?

If you think you have bot scammed, report it to the webstek, app, or social media webpagina where the scammer very first approached you. Let them know the scammer’s profile name and any other details that may help them to zekering others being scammed.

If you think you have provided your account details to a scammer, voeling your canap or financial institution instantly. (source: Scamwatch)

Too Good to Be True

About this time I slip te the fact that albeit this is all very tempting, I am gladfully married and not free or interested ter meeting them, but wish them well te their quest for online love or whatever they are looking for. Thesis chicks invariably do have trouble digesting this information however and after asking a few questions about my wifey and if I have children, revert instantly back to arranging to meet mij, what wij can do together etc and how wonderful a person I am. Yes, what a wonderful person I would be, willing to cheat on my wifey for someone I have only spoken with for five or ten minutes by Instant Message.

By now I have had enough joy stringing this person (very likely Westelijk African dandi posing spil a voluptuous monster) along, that I click “block this user” and never have to hear from them again. At least I wasted some of their time when they could have bot scamming someone more desvalido and gullible.

I am sure many women have experienced similar messages or emails from remarkable and suave foreign guys spruiking similar lines. I’d be interested to hear your stories te comments.

I just want to make it clear that what I have written here is ter no way meant to trivialise the legitimate search for love online, or belittle those looking for it. I know a number of people who have met their life fucking partners online (my family members included) and could never be more satisfied. I’d love to hear those stories too.

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