Facebook and social media dating is a relatively fresh phenomenon which has spil many professional’s spil it does con’s. With the latest announcement that Facebook now has 1 billion active users, there’s certainly no shortage of dating potential on the webpagina. But what if you are already married or ter a committed relationship. What effect is this temptation having on you and your playmate?
Here’s a typical story, which may sound all too conocido.
After several years of dating abstinence I embarked upon a fresh relationship with a truly fabulous dude. I am ter my forties and he is te his fifties. Wij are both divorced. Everything had being going truly well and there had bot no major hiccupsвЂ¦well, not until fairly recently that is!
The one thing that has taken mij entirely by verrassing, is just how much social networking sites, such spil Facebook, can influence adversely upon relationships.
Personally, I have never encountered anything finta like this before. It is a entire fresh ball spel for mij.
Now, I honestly wouldn’t call myself a jealous person and I am certainly no love struck, insecure tiener, but I am truly fighting with the effect that Facebook is having upon my latest relationship.
To the best of my skill, I have never had a playmate cheat on mij before and hence, have no underlying psychological reasons to be doubtful.
Nonetheless, I am truly perturbed by my playmate’s latest addition of female вЂњfriendsвЂќ to his Facebook account. Whilst wij have managed to reach a somewhat uneasy truce regarding this matter (more on that below) it has made mij wonder if there were any fresh social networking dating protocols that I had somehow managed to overlook te the intervening years!
With Facebook dating apps such spil Zoosk and Are You Interested? rapidly enlargening te popularity, should I be just a little bit worried?
A Little Background Information.
Firstly, I should very likely point out that my playmate already has many female friends and relatives on his Facebook account that were added before wij met. I don’t have a problem with this. What I am fighting to come to terms with is the fresh, post-dating addition of lugar women whom, ter reality, he hardly knows.
Due to the nature of his work, my fucking partner comes into voeling with lots of different people every day. He is utterly amiable and very popular. Ter fairness that is what makes him so successful te his job. Overheen a period of time, he will come into epistel voeling with the same faces overheen and overheen again. If someone were to add him spil a Facebook friend, he would view it spil impolite to reject. That is his way.
I, on the other mitt, am more cautious about who I accept spil a Facebook friend. I see it spil an invitation into my life and, to waterput it bluntly, there are some people whom I would rather not welcome!
Is He Facebook Dating?
Albeit there are many instances of people using Facebook dating spil a voertuig to cheat on their playmate, that is not my primary concern. It is more to do with the fundamental difference of opinion that wij both have regarding what is acceptable for a duo within the restrains of social media.
Make no mistake tho’. If I did uncover that he wasgoed using a Facebook app for dating, I would have no hesitation ter calling time on our relationship.