Joey is like almost half of all our respondents (46 vanaf cent) who told us that lovemaking is significant to their lives.

Online dating has made hookup more accessible for boys and women overheen 60. But spil well spil suggesting the possibility of greater sexual fulfilment, the internet is also throwing up fresh challenges and dangers.

“It’s the secret hook-up life of your parents and grandparents.” That’s what one 70-year-old woman ter Somerset told Channel Four News. Te fact, 51 vanaf cent of people overheen 60 told us they are sexually active and many describe liking a late sexual bloom. Ter special research, Channel Four News carried out in-depth interviews with 76 over-60s all overheen the country and polled another 500 to find out about love, lovemaking and relationships ter what is swift becoming a fresh, old age.

“I can say that sometimes ter the street I think: ‘Oh yeah, that would be a nice person to go to bedding with’,” Vikki, 70, from Dorset told us. Joey, Sixty-nine, from London said: “I got to a point where I thought I’m going to kick the bucket fairly soon.”

Wij still feel spil tho’ wij have a right to be a sexual being spil well spil everything else. Margaret, aged 67

So three months ago, he joined Grindr, the mobile dating app for gay guys, and told us he’s now “averaging, I would say, four dudes a week”. Joey is like almost half of all our respondents (46 vanaf cent) who told us that hook-up is significant to their lives.

Despite many feeling liberated ter themselves, many told us they didn’t feel like society wasgoed very approving of OAP hook-up. Many felt overlooked and that they became invisible after the menopause. Margaret, 67 from Oxfordshire told us: “We still feel spil however wij have a right to be a sexual being spil well spil everything else. Wij’re not just grannies – I’m not, anyway!”

“Younger people nowadays vereiste think: ‘Oh Aker, that’s gross, you know, granny’s at it,’” Myra, 67, ter Essex, told us. But at it they are, and a third of those who are single told us they too would like to meet someone fresh. And just like junior people, most are turning to the internet to do so.

‘I know what it’s all about’

Connie, 83, from London has just signed up for a dating webpagina, even however she can’t work a pc. Hier granddaughter Nicola is acting spil both facilitator and gatekeeper and sifting those she thinks are suitable.

Spil Nicola sends a smiley to a man called John who’s caught hier grandma’s eye, Connie tells us that Nicola need not worry about hier. “I have got my wits about mij, I do know what it’s all about.”

Stella and Peter met on eHarmony and got married a year ago, having both lost their long-term playmates. Peter, who wasgoed 70 at the time, recounts the nerves of embarking overheen again after many years without hook-up and said: “I can recall sitting on the sofa with Stella and discussing this and telling, well, I truly don’t know whether anything works any more. So wij determined to find out basically”.

Degree of naivety

The internet has made finding love so much lighter, but this enhanced access to lovemaking is leading to enlargened rates of sexually transmitted infections. Te fact, STIs have doubled ter 50-90-year-olds ter the past Ten years.

Justin Gaffney is a sexual health nurse consultant and told us: “There is a degree of naivety te the older population te that they just don’t see that they are at risk of sexual infections.”

There is a degree of naivety te the older population te that they just don’t see that they are at risk of sexual infections. Justin Gaffney, sexual health consultant

Te fact, older people become more anatomically susceptible to STIs spil they age, and yet 64 vanaf cent of our respondents who are either te fresh relationships or are dating, hadn’t sought sexual health advice.

Justin has had people come to him using household products spil lubricants- shampoo, mitt fluid and even cooking oil. “There does need to be perhaps a concentrate on attempting to make services more older people friendly.”

Keen to proefneming

Te many ways it is no verrassing that older people are taking risks. Many of our respondents told us that their very first marriages ter the 1950s and 60s had bot repressed, and if they are dating again today that they are keen to proef and love a much more empowered, adventurous relationship.

Truth is stranger than fiction. Some hot boy at Sixty-nine? Nah, this doesn’t toebijten. But by Godheid, it does! Joey, aged Sixty-nine

For some women, it has only bot ter zometeen years that they achieved orgasm for the very first time. Solange, 79, from Wales told us: “I might have bot ter my 40s when I had an inkling of what it wasgoed. By my 60s I’d ultimately figured out what it wasgoed. And ter my 70s, ‘Yes, that’s what it is!’”

Having had conventional relationships ter the past, lots of people wij spoke to are choosing to have relationships on different terms today. Solange added: “My take on older boys right now is that they’re looking for a housekeeper or a care-giver, neither of which roles I am ready to take on.” And so living exclusief seems to be a growing trend among older people attempting to keep things fresh.

Avoiding compromise

David and Carole live opposite each other, having moved down to Hastings after their respective vrouwen died. They see each other most days, but Carole says: “It’s more arousing witnessing each other when you don’t see each other all the time.”

David wasgoed keen to avoid the compromising involved by sharing each other’s space. “You don’t want to be ter a close, taut relationship again with all that involves, with all the sort of mundane things.”

Across our research wij have repeatedly heard how this 2nd chance at love and lovemaking wasgoed entirely unexpected. Joey added: “Truth is stranger than fiction. Some hot man at Sixty nine? Nah, this doesn’t toebijten. But by heer it does! It has! And look how hot I am!”

The very first part of Channel Four News’s Love and Hook-up When Wij’re Overheen 60 is broadcast on Monday 16 June.

Parts two and three will go after on during the week. They were directed by Cat McShane.

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